In Malcolm
Gladwell’s book Blink – an essay
about the importance of snap judgments and ‘thin slicing’ – there is the story
of John Gottman, a psychology professor who spent a large part of his career as a
marital psychologist. Gottman claimed
that he could study a three-minute video of a married couple interacting in his
lab and subsequently predict with high accuracy whether they would stay
together or eventually divorce.
Apparently micro-expressions on couples faces and their attitude towards
criticism and defensiveness etc. was enough to extrapolate a forecast. This research came flooding back to me within
minutes of watching a new documentary about married couples, ominously titled 112 Weddings.
Alongside his filmmaking career, Doug Block has spent over twenty years
filming weddings as a way of making money on the side. Somewhere around the 100 mark he began to
reflect on the nature and purpose of this ancient ritual, as well as wondering
what happened to the couples that he had invested such time and energy
into. This led him to make contact with
some of his favourite couples and to follow up on how their marriages were
going, with both poignant and tragic results.